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  1. #3301

    Re: Another day, another mass shooting in America

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Coffee View Post
    More bullsh!t. Seriously-- what is your problem?

    Are you incapable of telling the truth?

    Do you have a medical condition that prevents you from having an honest dialog?
    I asked you a question. You could answer it or not. You keep whining about honesty when you enter into virtually every one of these conversations with the intent to argue around what it is you want to say.

    And then you have a meltdown when you fail at it.

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    Re: Another day, another mass shooting in America

    Haha sorry, Maynerd. You keep slipping your edicts in while I'm typing.

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    Re: Another day, another mass shooting in America

    Quote Originally Posted by Gregorius Chant View Post
    I asked you a question. You could answer it or not. You keep whining about honesty when you enter into virtually every one of these conversations with the intent to argue around what it is you want to say.

    And then you have a meltdown when you fail at it.
    I cannot state my position more clearly.

    That you insist on dodging, misrepresenting, lying and taking things out of context is not my problem. You're either incapable or unwilling to comprehend what has been said. The reason these things get shut down is because of the constant repetition of having to explain to you the same things over and over and over again.

    Maybe it's simple trolling. Maybe it's a learning disability. I don't know.

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    Re: Another day, another mass shooting in America

    Quote Originally Posted by Gregorius Chant View Post
    No one has argued opposite. It's the word "racism" vs "prejudice". I"m with those who believe the former has meaning tied into power. The idea isn't that any one person can't be hateful towards another. You're quite right in your last statement, however what Coffee has been arguing on and off is that all racism is equal. He doesn't believe there are any systems in place rigged against POC and women, nor that white males have advantages as a result of those systems.

    That's always been the crux of his arguments on this subject.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Coffee View Post
    So then not treating people equally.
    Absolutely. And?

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    Re: Another day, another mass shooting in America

    Quote Originally Posted by JL25and3 View Post
    I think people should be treated the same.
    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Coffee View Post
    So we agree on this:

    White person who hates black people = racist

    Black person who hates white people = racist

    Man who hates women = sexist

    Woman who hates men = sexist
    Quote Originally Posted by JL25and3 View Post
    No, not really.
    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Coffee View Post
    So then not treating people equally.
    Quote Originally Posted by JL25and3 View Post
    Absolutely. And?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maynerd View Post
    If not based on hatred, why do they endure? I'd contend it's based in ignorance, but would welcome your insight.
    Lots of ways. Deep, deep intergenerational economic disparities, that in turn are attributed to each generation's supposed lack of drive and ambition. These extend into housing and education and health and pretty much every aspect of life. Many unconscious attitudes, not based on hatred but on implicit bias, anxiety or stereotypes or whatever, such that equally-qualified blacks get jobs or apartments at far lower rates than whites. Yes,those training manuals and policies in police departments. The fact that whites generally don't have to think about being white, where blacks generally are not permitted to forget it. That's a scratch on the surface.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Coffee View Post
    So what is the point you've been striving so mightily to make?

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    Re: Another day, another mass shooting in America

    Quote Originally Posted by JL25and3 View Post
    So what is the point you've been striving so mightily to make?
    Why don't you go back and read it?

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    Re: Another day, another mass shooting in America

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Coffee View Post
    Why don't you go back and read it?
    Quote Originally Posted by Gregorius Chant View Post
    I asked you a question. You could answer it or not. You keep whining about honesty when you enter into virtually every one of these conversations with the intent to argue around what it is you want to say.

    And then you have a meltdown when you fail at it.
    Of course.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Coffee View Post
    Why don't you go back and read it?
    White people dislike black people and black people dislike white people?

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    Re: Another day, another mass shooting in America

    Quote Originally Posted by Gregorius Chant View Post
    Of course.
    Get back to me on these from just the last two pages and I'll answer your seriously dumb question. Deal?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Coffee View Post
    What's your opinion?
    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Coffee View Post
    Can't be what? Strange that you cut it off right there.

    Are you seriously trying yet again to pretend we're discussing 'prejudiced' instead of 'racist'?
    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Coffee View Post
    Now explain why the black guy who professes to hate white people and goes on to kill three white people isn't racist. If that's not an example of a black person being racist, what is?

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    Re: Another day, another mass shooting in America

    Quote Originally Posted by JL25and3 View Post
    White people dislike black people and black people dislike white people?
    Yeah that was it John. Good job.

    We'll just forget about the contradictory statements and move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Coffee View Post
    Yeah that was it John. Good job.

    We'll just forget about the contradictory statements and move on.
    I'm listening. That is, I'm listening if the discussion is about racism. If it's about GC's posts, not so much.

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    Re: Another day, another mass shooting in America

    Quote Originally Posted by JL25and3 View Post
    I'm listening. That is, I'm listening if the discussion is about racism. If it's about GC's posts, not so much.
    I'll spell it out-- You made two opposing statements and you're asking me what point I'm trying to make. It isn't me who needs to clarify his position.

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    Re: Another day, another mass shooting in America

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Coffee View Post
    I'll spell it out-- You made two opposing statements and you're asking me what point I'm trying to make. It isn't me who needs to clarify his position.
    Ah. When you said "not treating people equally," I thought you were referring to the haters in your scenarios treating people differently out of racial animosity, and I was agreeing to that.


    Yes, I said that people should not be treated differently. I'm not searching back for the post, but whether in that one or another, I added that people are treated differently, and that that's often not a matter of individual attitudes. Do I ever treat people differently? Sure. There are plenty of times when I'll talk to a black person differently than I'd talk to a white person, especially if we're talking about race, because I know they've had a very different experience from me by virtue of being black. Not that all blacks have the exact same experience, not that that person's experience consists only in being black; but that it's an important factor that underlies any discussion. There are lots of ways I might treat people differently in my interactions with them. That's because, while I believe people should not be treated differently, I'd be a damn fool to pretend that they haven't been treated differently their whole lives, and that that hasn't become an important part of who they are, and if I just stop talking about it, it will go away. I prefer to live in reality.

    Also: Really? After the dozens or hundreds of posts I've written on the subject, saying the same thing over and over, you're going to play gotcha (incorrectly) with two isolated quotes and think you've somehow made a significant point?
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    Re: Another day, another mass shooting in America

    Quote Originally Posted by JL25and3 View Post
    Ah. When you said "not treating people equally," I thought you were referring to the haters in your scenarios treating people differently out of racial animosity, and I was agreeing to that.


    Yes, I said that people should not be treated differently. I'm not searching back for the post, but whether in that one or another, I added that people are treated differently, and that that's often not a matter of individual attitudes. Do I ever treat people differently? Sure. There are plenty of times when I'll talk to a black person differently than I'd talk to a white person, especially if we're talking about race, because I know they've had a very different experience from me by virtue of being black. Not that all blacks have the exact same experience, not that that person's experience consists only in being black; but that it's an important factor that underlies any discussion. There are lots of ways I might treat people differently in my interactions with them. That's because, while I believe people should not be treated differently, I'd be a damn fool to pretend that they haven't been treated differently their whole lives, and that that hasn't become an important part of who they are, and if I just stop talking about it, it will go away. I prefer to live in reality.

    Also: Really? After the dozens or hundreds of posts I've written on the subject, saying the same thing over and over, you're going to play gotcha (incorrectly) with two isolated quotes and think you've somehow made a significant point?
    I wasn't playing gotcha. I wasn't trying to make a point.

    I simply asked for clarification.

    I don't understand the defensiveness.

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    Re: Another day, another mass shooting in America

    Quote Originally Posted by JL25and3 View Post
    Do I ever treat people differently? Sure. There are plenty of times when I'll talk to a black person differently than I'd talk to a white person, especially if we're talking about race, because I know they've had a very different experience from me by virtue of being black. Not that all blacks have the exact same experience, not that that person's experience consists only in being black; but that it's an important factor that underlies any discussion.
    I talk with my black friends absolutely the same way as I do my white friends. I'll be honest, though.....I don't talk with them about race (black or white). I find someone's race to be an insignificant demographic. Race is more obvious than if someone is Catholic, Protestant, or something else, but like their religion or their ancestry, not a factor in my assessment of the person, nor a subject of casual conversation.


    Quote Originally Posted by JL25and3
    ....and if I just stop talking about it, it will go away.
    But, isn't it true that if you keep talking about it, it won't ever go away? When you talk with someone who is white, I doubt the conversation turns to whiteness. Why should the conversation turn to race when talking with a POC? If you found yourself in a room with Ronald Torreyes, would you steer the conversation toward the mole?

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    Re: Another day, another mass shooting in America

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Coffee View Post
    I wasn't playing gotcha. I wasn't trying to make a point.

    I simply asked for clarification.

    I don't understand the defensiveness.
    It's not defensiveness, it's frustration. Forest v. trees. Forest v. individual leaves fallen on the ground near the trees.


    You really needed clarification about my thinking at this point?
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    Re: Another day, another mass shooting in America

    Quote Originally Posted by JL25and3 View Post
    It's not defensiveness, it's frustration. Forest v. trees. Forest v. individual leaves fallen on the ground near the trees.

    You really needed clarification about my thinking at this point?
    No, we all know each other so well that conversation is unnecessary.

    You posted two statements that were seemingly at odds with each other. I asked for clarification.

    If that is frustrating to you, I don't know what to tell you.

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